Inside my bestfriend's head...
*sigh* I called my bessy last night and we had one hell of a talk.. here's a summary of what he shared with me.. he really is full of wisdom.. (i hope he doesn't read this cause if he does, it will get into his head.
What is love? Love will have different meanings for different people. Some would have happy while some would have had experiences in it. Most of the time, those that suffer because of love would lean to be more bias on the negative side of it and how cruel and bad the opposite sex (if it is of the opposite sex) is and creating a stereotype of them. Others may not have even passed the border of being considered "in love." An example of which is fearing the possible outcomes when they would be in a relationship. Being paranoid of the future of failing, of not working out, of so many probable reasons. Others would have lasted for so long but eventually part ways in the end. Maybe because of getting too tired of one another, of wanting more than what they have, of lacking something they want to receive, of lsoing the spark they had, etc. Others would have repeated experiences in their love life. Always telling themselves that i would not repeat the same mistake but they do, again ang again. I believe that relationships will always work if and only if both parties have the will to work things out.That is why love is never DESTINY! Love is, was and will always be a choice between two person that cherish and trust one another. So if you are feeling down and cursing love, just take a break if you are really serious about it but if you just want to have short-term fun relationships then just forget about what i just wrote. Have fun! "Ganyan talaga ang buhay" is a phrase taken from the song Batang-bata k pa bu APO Hiking Society. This can somehow be related to love but it does not mean that i am saying i believe in destiny by saying that LIFe is Really Like tHat (translation of Ganyan talaga ang buhay, duno if it's correct) but in a sense that we are driving our own life and life encompasses one's love life and other sub-lives we have. I hope we would reflect on our own experiences not only in love for the opposite sex but reflect on the other kinds of love like love for our family, friends, God, neighbors and others if we really do mean what we say. If it is the heart speaking, not the mouth.
I guess he was so much affected by his former love.. bwahahaha! what a traumatic experience.. Hope i don't get one like that.. bwahahaha!
